Jason Becker
2025-08-15

I get a lot of enjoyment out of non-Facebook Meta apps/services, but it is really difficult to feel ok about using them when they do shit like this. I find myself reconsidering, even though the social cost would be high.

I think it sucks how much we’ve amplified every form of disagreement as fatal to relationships, real and para-social alike. I think in a time where there are so many issues that feel deeply high stakes, it’s basically impossible to find common ground where to draw “this is ok to agree to disagree”.

I should note, I think it sucks we can’t find those places so easily not to avoid accountability, but because maintaining relationships where disagreement exists is how people are moved to new views and ideas. It’s how growth can happen.

Bobby Hill walked so that Gene Belcher could run.


This Month: December 2025

Dec 22
📸: My favorite breakfast is a fried egg with a jammy yolk, kimchi, rice, and Everything but the Bagel seasoning with a coffee.
Dec 21
📸: My toxic trait? Thinking I will clean this up before the end of next week, while also pondering if the real fix is buying an expensive L-shaped desk.
Dec 16
📸: Highly recommend leaving the cold and work behind and going to the jungle somewhere warm.
Dec 13
📸:
Dec 13
Settled